“What is one thing that you have always wanted to ask me?” Leah McSweeney, the reigning breakout star of Real Housewives of New York City, prompts her season 13 co-star, Eboni Okay. Williams.

ET enlisted Leah to interview the latest and history-making NYC Housewife — Eboni is the franchise’s first Black solid member — however earlier than wrapping their candid chat, she offers Eboni the prospect to show the tables. Yet, after an particularly intimate season spent within the Bravo trenches collectively, there aren’t many questions which have gone unanswered.

“I feel like we know a lot about each other,” Eboni offers up ultimately. “I was going to be like, ‘How many Black men have you slept with?’ Which I already know the answer too.”

“I wanted to ask, ‘Have you ever had anal?'” Leah quips again. “Sorry, Entertainment Tonight!”

In a wide-ranging sit-down, the duo goes deep on Eboni’s journey to turning into a Housewife (she’s been a RHONY stan since season 1) and the pressures of illustration, in addition to why season 13 would be the present’s most “polarizing” but, making actuality TV throughout a pandemic, being hazed by the OGs and extra.

LEAH: Here we go. Make positive you reply truthfully, each query.

EBONI: Scout’s honor.

LEAH: What had been your largest fears about becoming a member of a actuality present?

EBONI: The edit, fairly frankly. [Laughs] Because I’m such a management freak. I’m used to tv however within the information house, the place it is reside and there’s no actual edit. It was simply onerous for me to surrender that management in figuring out that after you set it on the market, that is it. But in a means it was additionally liberating, so it was fairly cool.

LEAH: Well, it is [your first season], and I really feel, like, season one, you are going to get edit, it doesn’t matter what. And additionally, I’ve discovered that I really feel prefer it’s fairly trustworthy. How a lot of the present had you seen earlier than becoming a member of the solid?

EBONI: I’ll proudly let you know I noticed each episode — and in actual time. It wasn’t like I began having this dialog about becoming a member of the ladies after which binged. No, no, no. I had been a RHONY stan since school.

LEAH: That’s superior. There are a pair seasons I missed that I do want to return and watch

EBONI: I like to recommend it. I’ve rewatched 3, 6, and seven through the quarantine after we wrapped. Very attention-grabbing.

LEAH: I believe really 6 and seven are those I did not see. Is that once they go to Cartagena? Because I did watch that one episode final 12 months and I used to be like, “Holy sh*t, this is one of the best TV moments in the whole world–“

EBONI: Literally, holy sh*t.

LEAH: When they’re on that boat and Carole’s puking and Ramona and Sonja are crying. It was nice! So, when the chance got here to develop into a Real Housewife of New York City, was it a right away sure? Or did it take some convincing?

EBONI: It did take some convincing, because–

LEAH: Because you are sane!

EBONI: A) I’m sane. B) You know, I did have a profession earlier than becoming a member of the present and I wished to verify I wasn’t going to blow all of it the way in which up. It stays to be seen.

LEAH: Pretty positive you are blowin’ it up!

EBONI: But additionally, if I used to be going to do that present, I used to be going to do all of it the way in which. Like, I wasn’t any individual that was going to return on like, “I don’t want to talk about this” and phase elements of my life. That simply did not really feel like the best solution to do one thing like this. I needed to have an actual dedication to myself, to [say],”Eboni, just put it all out there.” And that’s what I did. And that took a while to get to.

LEAH: Yeah, you probably did. You put all of it on the market. And I recognize it, as a result of I put all of it on the market, too.

EBONI: You, in fact, introduced me into this loopy group of girls. What’s the one piece of recommendation that you simply want you’ll have given me on reflection? You advised me a lot.

LEAH: I do know. Did I let you know to only be your self?

EBONI: You did and also you advised me to not have any preconceived notions of the ladies. You simply stated, “They’re very different and just get to know them as yourself,” which was good.

LEAH: Yeah, I do not suppose that there is something that I want I’d have advised you. Is there something that you simply want I had advised you? Maybe how exhausting it’s? Did I let you know that?

EBONI: No, you did not. I want that you’d have advised me that earlier than solid journeys, to get, like, three days’ value of sleep.

LEAH: Right, and possibly, like, an IV drip. Sorry about that!

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LEAH: How did you’re feeling about being the primary Black Housewife to affix Real Housewives of New York City? Did you’re feeling plenty of strain?

EBONI: You know, I actually did not. I felt excited. I felt prefer it was an honor and like a blessing, and the fact is, coming from the South, I’ve been first in plenty of areas. I used to be the primary Black feminine lawyer on the first regulation agency I labored at. I used to be, famously, the primary Miss Lafayette, 2007– True story, do not chuckle! [Laughs]

LEAH: But I do not know what that’s! What is that?

EBONI: It’s a rustic magnificence pageant kind no matter!

LEAH: That’s nonetheless main!

EBONI: In all seriousness, although, this might have been any unbelievable Black lady in New York City to do that, and so the truth that they picked me, it is an honor. I used to be too excited to be nervous or really feel strain.

LEAH: OK, I’m gonna push again just a bit bit on that, as a result of how might you be the primary Black Housewife and never really feel some form of strain? I believe you needed to have felt some form of strain.

EBONI: Oh, shocker! Leah pushing again. Yes, you are proper, I assume on reflection, I knew the strain was there. I do not characterize simply a person lady. I’m not simply Eboni on this present. I’m representing Black ladies for the primary time on this present, in order that is a gigantic expectation from better society and in addition, frankly, from the Black group to point out up and characterize us in a extremely necessary, optimistic means, particularly on this second of racial reckoning in America.

LEAH: Out of all time, now.

EBONI: So, I believe possibly a part of me subconsciously put that expectation to mattress, as a result of it is such an unattainable factor. I can not characterize all of the unbelievable issues about Black ladies. But I do work onerous this season — hopefully you will agree — to characterize myself authentically and in a means that hopefully folks can relate and have a greater sense of humanity of the Black feminine expertise.

LEAH: I imply, even in direction of the center of the season, keep in mind we form of had a dialog and I used to be like, “You don’t have to carry it all, it’s too much. Like, it’s not fair for you to take all of that on.”

EBONI: I forgot that. You’re proper. At some level, I used to be attempting to be the consultant of, you already know, the tradition. And it was an excessive amount of, and it was getting in the way in which of my connection to all the ladies.

LEAH: Right. This season is so deep.

EBONI: It’s so wealthy! And you understand how I like wealthy. [Laughs] No, I’m simply kidding. If you would decide one phrase, how do you describe season 13?

LEAH: Polarizing. Like, I’m sorry to say, however I do suppose it is vitally polarizing. There’s at all times plenty of opinions in regards to the present and in regards to the ladies and all the things, however I actually really feel due to all the things we coated this season–

EBONI: It’s so much.

LEAH: I believe that it is going to actually fire up plenty of feelings, opinions, emotions, and you already know, folks get very severe about their opinions.

EBONI: I believe it is going to push folks. I believe it pushed us as we had been going via it in massive methods. I used to be pushed. I’m positive you guys felt pushed. But I believe we pushed via a bunch of cool stuff.

EBONI: Obviously, you have already got one season of RHONY below your belt, however this season you filmed throughout a pandemic. How is it completely different than filming the primary season, pre-COVID?

LEAH: Well, I imply, it was a lot extra intense. We do not have all the surface distractions. We do not have massive events to go to with different folks.

EBONI: With 60 buddies? [Laughs]

LEAH: Right. Fifty of my finest buddies could not come to a celebration this season. But to begin with, should you went via this pandemic this 12 months and also you did not come out a special individual indirectly, form or kind, then you don’t have any soul, OK. So, coping with that and coping with the collective struggling and feelings and all the things that we had been going via as a society and in addition having to movie a present on the similar time, it was plenty of work. It was so much. Like, it was much more than season one. And it was a lot extra introspective, and we needed to like be with one another extra.

EBONI: Do you suppose we needed to depend on one another extra this season?

LEAH: Yes, we needed to depend on one another extra, completely. And we needed to maintain one another accountable extra. Everything was only a heightened model of what it was the 12 months earlier than. And no booze to numb it.

EBONI: Speak for your self, sister! You do begin this season, together with our Luann, sober. And you additionally celebrated one 12 months of sobriety. I’m so pleased with you. The complete group is simply so comfortable for you.

LEAH: Thanks, babe.

EBONI: How had that made this season completely different than final season?

LEAH: Well, I like not being hungover. That makes an enormous distinction. Look, I’m positively very entertaining drunk. I bought a kick out of myself, truthfully. But behind the scenes, I used to be, like, struggling. Like, “OK, I know that alcohol doesn’t agree with me. I also can’t stop drinking right yet,” you already know what I imply? So, I’m simply feeling very grateful that I used to be in a position to put it down. Some folks, you hear horror tales that they’re sober for a very long time after which they return out they usually drink after which they can not get sober once more. In phrases of filming the season, I do not see being sober as a detriment. I see it as this, like, liberating, free factor the place I can then reside and be my finest to my biggest expectation of myself, in a means. Because alcohol holds me again, as a result of I’m so allergic to it.

EBONI: And that is so conscious so that you can even get to that time, Leah. And I need to say for the file you are very entertaining sober too — bear witness — and I’m pleased with you that you simply weren’t triggered, frankly, by filming once more, as a result of I might see the place somebody who had that had [would] correlate filming with that stage of intoxication. You did try this, and I’m actually pleased with you.

LEAH: Thank you, honey. I recognize that. And you had been an enormous help. Not solely did you be a part of the present because the beginner, you additionally joined throughout a pandemic. How rather more difficult did that make it? Or did it make it simpler to attach with the women because you had been in your individual present bubble?

EBONI: I believe it made it simpler to attach, as a result of we weren’t distracted. We’re not at events with one million folks and one million company and buddies of. We’re not out and about within the enterprise and wonderfulness of New York City. We’re compelled to only sit and be with one another, and so I believe in that means it compelled a stronger, faster connection.

LEAH: Yeah, effectively, I’m so sorry you did not get to fulfill Ramona’s 50 finest buddies.

EBONI: I assumed you had been gonna say, “I’m so sorry you didn’t get to go on a glamorous cast trip.”

LEAH: They’re actually particular. Maybe subsequent season, we’ll see.

EBONI: Maybe subsequent season I can put it on a Gucci bag.

LEAH: Going into this season, who did you count on to go head-to-head with? And had been you proper?

EBONI: Yes, I used to be proper. I did count on to go head-to-head with Ramona Singer. I believe the world anticipated that to occur. [Laughs] I believe we’re each very alpha ladies. We each say it like we imply it, and typically that may ruffle feathers. Of course, we all know that that does occur via durations of the season. I believe what’s stunning is she wasn’t the primary lady on this group that I’m going head-to-head with. Were you shocked by that?

LEAH: I used to be. I used to be like, “Oh, wow, it’s her? Damn, I thought it was gonna be Ramona first.”

EBONI: Right, off to the races.

LEAH: “Races,” no pun supposed.

EBONI: Oh, oops! Oh my god, that was an excessive amount of. [Laughs]

LEAH: Honestly, within the trailer — as a result of I get to see all these items I hadn’t seen — whenever you’re like, “You’re gaslighting me,” and [Ramona’s] like, “You’re gaslighting me,” I’m like, oh my god. It’s the battle of who’s gaslighting who. Ramona would not know what gaslighting means, for positive. She’s simply saying it since you stated it to her. I died.

EBONI: “I know you are, but what am I?”

LEAH: Exactly. It was that form of factor.

EBONI: So good. So, phrase on the road is that you simply bought right into a little bit of a factor with Miss Heather Thomson.

LEAH: [Laughs] Oh god, are we going there? OK. You imply phrase on the she planted a narrative about it?

EBONI: Bloop! What are you able to tease with out giving all of it away in regards to the heated trade?

LEAH: Listen, when all I learn about you is that you simply consistently put down each lady within the group in your podcast, then I simply do not perceive why you are coming to hang around with us. And I’m questioning if I’m gonna be the following individual you discuss in your podcast. And I’m additionally considering, what are the ulterior motives so that you can come hang around with us whenever you’ve actually stated the nastiest issues about every individual? You do not like Sonja’s new face. You accuse Luann of performing some actually dangerous stuff. I simply do not perceive what you are doing right here.

EBONI: Do you suppose that she was simply completely underestimating what the dynamic could be?

LEAH: I believe she was. I believe she actually was, however I do not know why anybody would ever underestimate.

EBONI: Live and be taught!

LEAH: Give us one phrase to explain your first impression of Ramona

EBONI: Rather a lot. That’s two phrases, sorry.

LEAH: Sonja?

EBONI: Effervescent. Like, energetic.

LEAH: Luann?

EBONI: Gorgeous.


EBONI: Endearing. You are a girl who presents as such a badass and such a troublesome lady and “I’m from New York prep school,” and actually, you are simply the sweetest factor. You’re so loving. And you are so empathetic to the world round you. And you do not essentially need to be, and so I believe that is actually a worth assertion about you.

LEAH: I like you. I recognize that.

EBONI: I like you, too. And you make me higher, and I did not know I could possibly be. [Laughs] Just kidding! I’m kidding, however you do. I like our friendship.

LEAH: I actually recognize that. I like our friendship, too. I’m really so excited for the viewers to see our friendship.

EBONI: I believe it is wanted, for lots of various causes on this second. Just as ladies, as ladies from completely different cultural backgrounds, ladies at a specific age the place I believe, sadly, society pits ladies in opposition to one another professionally and romantically. And we simply blow all that up and simply trip for one another.

“I’m not going into the lower level, no matter what.”

LEAH: Being the brand new lady, you at all times need to endure some hazing as a part of your initiation. Did I correctly put together you for what you had been entering into? [Laughs] I do not even suppose I wanted to arrange you.

EBONI: No, you probably did a horrible job, Leah, of making ready me for the hazing.

LEAH: Bch, you didn’t even get hazed.

EBONI: And I would not get hazed. That was the issue I refused. And I believe your pals did not like that an excessive amount of.

LEAH: Yeah, I do not suppose so. You had been like, “I’m not going into the lower level, no matter what.” I used to be like, “Heather can go down there. It’s fine.”

EBONI: And that was good recommendation you probably did give me was to be assured in my request for room at Ramona’s within the Hamptons. You gave me the entire lay of the land, and that was very efficient, so thanks, Leah.

LEAH: I really feel like I allow them to haze me an excessive amount of final season.

EBONI: You did allow them to haze you, sweetheart. I believe Tinsley failed you. I’m simply kidding! [Laughs]

LEAH: Yes, in some methods, she did. Because Tinsley was getting hazed nonetheless! So, in fact. But I felt, like, I’m on this lady’s home. She’s a lot older than I’m. I’m attempting to be visitor. Forget that the cameras are round, like, I’m not there to fake I’m some bossed-up badass.

EBONI: No, you had been simply being a well mannered, pretty younger lady.

LEAH: Yes!

EBONI: I generally is a bch. We’re completely different. [Laughs]

LEAH: I do know! You’re the precise bch.


LEAH: I simply wanna be a bch. I’m a fraud. I’m a fking fraud!

EBONI: The sweetest form, although.

This interview has been edited and condensed for readability.

The Real Housewives of New York City season 13 premieres May 4 on Bravo.


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